A stronger relationship with yourself changes the way you experience everything else.

Build emotional confidence, healthier relationships, and a deeper trust in yourself.

Welcome!

Whether you're looking for professional counselling in British Columbia or personal growth coaching from anywhere in the world, my work is grounded in three interconnected areas:

Your relationship with yourself.
Your relationship with others.
Your ability to understand and regulate your emotions.

You don't have to keep abandoning yourself to keep the peace, second-guessing your needs, or feeling disconnected from the people around you.

There is another way to relate to yourself, to your emotions, and to others.

Rebecca Dunlop
Registered Clinical Counsellor | Coach

Everything starts with your relationship with yourself.

The way you relate to yourself influences how you communicate, set boundaries, navigate conflict, choose relationships, and move through difficult emotions.

My work explores three areas that are deeply connected:


01 — Relationship With Self

How do you relate to yourself when things get difficult?

Build greater self-awareness, self-trust, confidence, and compassion.

This can mean learning to recognize your needs, understand your patterns, challenge self-critical thoughts, and make choices that are aligned with who you are—not simply with what others expect from you.

02 — Relationship With Others

How do you show up in your relationships?

Healthy relationships require more than good communication.

They require boundaries, emotional awareness, vulnerability, assertiveness, and the ability to stay connected to yourself while connecting with someone else.

Whether you're navigating friendships, family, dating, workplace relationships, or intercultural relationships, we can explore how you communicate and what you need from the people around you.

03 — Emotional Regulation

What happens inside you when emotions become overwhelming?

Emotions aren't problems to eliminate. They're information.

Learning to understand and regulate your emotions can help you respond more intentionally instead of automatically reacting, shutting down, overthinking, avoiding, or becoming overwhelmed.

The goal isn't to feel less.

It's to feel more capable of being with what you feel.

TWO PATHWAYS

Where would you like to begin?

The same foundational ideas can support different kinds of growth, but counselling and coaching are not the same service.

Choose the pathway that best fits what you're looking for.

COUNSELLING

Individualized counselling for adults in British Columbia

Healing can begin when you have space to understand what you've been through, process what you're carrying, and reconnect with yourself.

You may be navigating anxiety, relationship difficulties, low self-esteem, loneliness, people-pleasing, emotional challenges, life transitions, or experiences from the past that continue to affect how you feel and relate to yourself and others. Sometimes, you may simply know that something doesn't feel right and want support in understanding why.

As a Registered Clinical Counsellor, I provide individualized counselling for adults in British Columbia, offering a supportive and non-judgmental space where you can slow down, reflect, and explore what is happening beneath the surface.

Together, we can work toward a deeper understanding of your emotions, experiences, and relationship patterns while developing tools and insights that support meaningful change. Counselling can be a space to heal past wounds, strengthen your relationship with yourself, and move forward with greater self-awareness, emotional confidence, and clarity.

Counselling may be right for you if you're looking to:

  • Heal from difficult or painful past experiences

  • Better understand yourself and your emotional patterns

  • Manage anxiety, overwhelm, or difficult emotions

  • Build self-esteem and self-trust

  • Navigate relationships, family, or interpersonal challenges

  • Develop healthier boundaries

  • Work through people-pleasing or difficulty expressing your needs

  • Navigate loneliness, disconnection, or major life transitions

  • Create healthier patterns in how you relate to yourself and others

  • Develop greater self-awareness and emotional confidence

Counselling is a clinical service and is available to clients in British Columbia.

Ready to explore counselling?

Different pathways. One deeper purpose.

Counselling and coaching serve different purposes, but they share a common foundation:

Helping you develop a healthier relationship with yourself so you can build healthier relationships with the people and world around you.

Because the way you talk to yourself matters.

The way you handle difficult emotions matters.

The way you communicate your needs matters.

And the relationships you build matter.


Looking for professional mental health support?

Start with a free 20-minute consultation.

Choosing a counsellor is a personal decision, and it's important that you feel comfortable with the person you work with. This complimentary 20-minute consultation is an opportunity to briefly share what brings you to counselling, ask any questions you may have, and get a sense of whether working together feels like the right fit.

This is not a counselling session or assessment. It's simply a chance to connect, learn more about the counselling process, and decide whether you'd like to take the next step.

COACHING

Individualized coaching for globally minded adults

You don't have to be struggling to want support. Sometimes, you simply know that you want more for yourself and are ready to make intentional changes in the way you show up in your life and relationships.

Maybe you want to trust yourself more, communicate with greater confidence, set boundaries without guilt, stop second-guessing yourself, or feel more comfortable being fully yourself.

Coaching is focused on personal growth, self-development, and creating meaningful change in the present and future.

I provide individualized coaching for adults around the world, working with globally minded individuals—including professionals, Gen Z adults, expats, and people navigating multicultural or international environments—who want to build greater confidence, emotional awareness, and clarity in how they navigate themselves, their relationships, and their lives.

Coaching provides a collaborative space to identify what you want to change, understand the patterns that may be getting in your way, and turn insight into meaningful action. Together, we can focus on where you are now, where you want to go, and the skills and mindset that can help you get there.

Coaching may be right for you if you want to:

  • Build greater confidence and self-trust

  • Develop healthier boundaries

  • Stop people-pleasing and prioritize your own needs

  • Communicate more openly and confidently

  • Strengthen your emotional awareness and confidence

  • Navigate dating, friendships, family, or workplace relationships

  • Feel more comfortable expressing yourself and being authentic

  • Navigate intercultural or international relationships with greater confidence

  • Create intentional change in your personal or professional life

  • Become more aligned with the person you want to be

Coaching is a personal growth service available to adults internationally.

Ready to invest in your growth?

You don't have to figure it all out on your own.

Whether you're working through something difficult or simply ready to grow into a more confident version of yourself, there is a place to begin.

Ready to focus on personal growth?

Start with a free 20-minute coaching consultation.

Not sure where to begin or whether coaching is the right fit for what you're looking for? This complimentary 20-minute consultation gives us a chance to connect, talk about what you'd like to work toward, and explore how individualized coaching could support you.

We'll discuss what you're hoping to change or develop, answer any questions you have, and see whether my coaching approach aligns with what you're looking for. There is no pressure to commit—you can simply use the conversation to decide whether coaching feels like the right next step.